Daily Archives: July 13, 2009

Budget Meeting In Middletown Tonight

Tonight at Town hall there will be a special budget meeting to discuss and adopt the FY 2009 budget, it should be interesting to see how this proposed budget differs from the propsed budget that was introduced on April 20th.
The town has announced that the budget will be $1.3 million less then last years budget, but will still require 1.95 cent tax increase per $100 of assest value. This new budget proposal is less then the 3.02 tax increase which was part of the April 20th introduction and needs to be amended accordingly.
Date: Monday, July 13, 2009
Time 7:00 p.m.
Place: Middletown Town Hall-Main Meeting Room
One Kings Highway
Middletown, NJ 07748
Known Action Items: Public Hearing 2009 Municipal and Solid Waste Budget, Public Hearing Ordinance 2009-2964 to exceed Municpal Budget Appropriation Limits and Establish a Cap Bank, Introduction Amendment to 2009 Municipal Budget

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A Life Lost Out of the Spotlight

While watching CBS’s Sunday Morning today I was moved by the segment about Brian Bradshaw, who died in Afghanistan on June 25, the same day as the “king of Pop” Michael Jackson.

And just as millions of people will remember where the were when they heard the news of Jackson death, Martha Gillis, Brian Bradshaw aunt will always remember where she was when she learned of her nephews passing.

The following video testament to her nephew and the sacrifice that he made for our freedom, kind of puts things into perspective as to what is really important and who should be remembered more for their accomplishments.

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My 24-year-old nephew, Brian Bradshaw, died in Afghanistan on June 25, killed by an IED, but you’d never have known it from the national media.

I cannot tell you how that silence added to the pain of losing this bright, funny, thoughtful young man, whom I remember so vividly as a toddler, wandering the house in cowboy boots and hat (and nothing else).

I suspect it’s a pain shared by many of the 4,000-plus grieving families whose loved ones have sacrificed their lives in two wars that have largely disappeared from the news.

When I flew West for Brian’s funeral, the mayor of his small home town personally met each of dozens of flights of arriving family members. Flags flew at half-staff. Six hundred people attended the funeral service.

That is partly a testament to Brian’s remarkable capacity to connect with people and leave a lasting impression – his lopsided grins were so infectious. It is also a testament to the level of caring and support the town offered to my bereaved sister and her husband.

Even the desk clerk who checked us into our hotel attended, as a simple gesture of common humanity.

Along the route from the church to the cemetery, people came out of their houses to stand with their hands over their hearts or to wave small American flags. Cars going in the opposite direction stopped. Some drivers got out to stand in respect.

To all of them, I say “Thank you. You know how to honor those who serve to protect you.”

Once I left town, though, soldier’s deaths once again became invisible.

Because of the incredible kindness of the people of Steilacoom, Wash., however, I wonder how many other people, in Maine or Texas or New York City, would also have honored Brian and the other soldiers who have died in the last two weeks if the media had simply let them know:

Somebody’s little boy died today. Someone’s little girl found out today that Daddy is never coming home.

That news is hard to bear; when the nation they died for barely notices, it’s crushing.

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